Connect IRL

Connect In Real Life is not your average series of events, but a real chance to connect with Torontonians in meaningful and sometimes unexpected ways.

Come early. Stay later. Experience it all.

Make the most of your Connect IRL experience by coming before or staying after the featured event. Grab a drink or snack at the bar. Participate in engagement activities curated to the evening's theme. Take a moment or two and connect with a stranger at our Conversation Station.

Main Stage Event

Hear from leading thinkers and writers on the value of social connection and community.

Engagement Activities

Put connection into action with activities and workshops that explore the evening's theme in fun and interactive ways.

Conversation Station

Take a seat and share a moment or two with a stranger. Guided prompts are available to use for the conversation.

Follow your interests, not your feed.

Connect IRL for a series of events, workshops and activities where people become your best recommendations.

The Experience

Event

This evening will explore the theme of harmony and finding the collective beauty in individual voices.

Main Stage Event: An interactive choir experience with Choir! Choir! Choir! exploring how singing together can transform strangers into community. 

Engagement Workshop: This workshop will be announced at a later date.

Conversation Station: Sit down with a stranger at the Music Cafe and share your favourite songs, artists and lyrics. 

Event

Spend an evening rethinking time alone in a room full of other people, as we explore the theme of “good solitude” and how alone time makes togetherness possible.

Main Stage Event: Explore how healthy solitude differs from loneliness and why intentional alone time can strengthen well-being and connection with others.

Engagement Workshop: Create and illustrate a postcard for someone you've been meaning to reconnect with.

Conversation Station: Connect with a stranger in a low-sensory space designed for meaningful conversation.

Roger Berkowitz Event

This evening will explore the “the liking gap” – the idea that strangers would like us more than we think if we tried to connect.

Main Stage Event: Explore the science behind the “liking gap” and discover how simple conversations with strangers can build connection, boost well-being, and enrich everyday life.

Engagement Workshop: This workshop will be announced at a later date.

Conversation Station: Step into a transit-inspired setting where prompts help spark conversations with strangers.

Nick Epley & Gillian Sandstorm

This evening will explore the challenge of staying connected across our differences, through the friendships of Hannah Arendt.

Main Stage Event: Explore how friendships across differences can strengthen community, and what it takes to stay in meaningful dialogue with people whose views challenge our own.

Engagement Workshop: Discover how well you know your friends or partner in a fun challenge that celebrates friendship and connection.

Conversation Station: Discuss the friendships that have shaped your life through conversations about connection and disagreement.

Mark your calendars and reserve your free tickets on Eventbrite.

Advance ticket reservations are required for the events and workshops, and seating is limited. Tickets are available on TPL's Eventbrite channel. Please don't print your tickets. We're trying to reduce paper waste for events, so we will either scan your ticket on your smartphone or quickly find your name on our tablets and check you in.

Go Beyond Connect IRL

Carefully curated books and videos to help you dive deeper into the importance of connection.

Books

Explore this curated booklist on all things connection.

Past Events On-Demand

Watch past events that dive deeper into the importance of connection. 

Come curious. Leave connected.